Sunday, February 13, 2011

God’s love heals the broken hearted.

There is nothing better than a toddler who does not speak English and is adjusting to a new life to shine a light on all the areas of sin and weakness in your life. To say that the last few weeks have been chalenging would be to make light of what we have experienced since we brought our son home. My friend says that adopting a child is like having a bomb go off in your house for the first few months...or ...for some children years. That is actually pretty acurate. I can say that after almost 4 weeks the dust is starting to settle, but occationaly we have some unexpected "explosions". Thankfully, last week there was "hope" rising out of the ashes.

Prior to bringing Andrei home, I felt secure in my ability to parent him. Now that he is home, and we are experiencing all the ups and downs of this adjustment period, I realize that all of my life experiences gave me a false sense of security. I was relying on my earthly understanding of children and parenting.

I had forgotten that parenting is a spiritual endeavor. This is a walk that can not be taken in the pride of our own abilities but in prayer and humility while holding on tightly to God’s hand. May God give us wisdom to raise our children in His ways, love to show them mercy as He has shown us, and kindness when our patience runs out.

Micah 6:8 8
He has showed you, O man, what is good.
And what does the Lord require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

The best way I can describe a child who has experienced abandonment and neglect is that he is “broken hearted”. Andrei is slowly learning how to trust and accept our love, and his behaviors are beginning to reflect the trust that is building, but true healing can only come from God. As his parents, we can love and guide our son towards God, but we can not heal the wound that is caused by abandonment and neglect. Only God’s love can heal the broken hearted, and I pray that someday Andrei may come to know God's healing love.

My prayer this Valentine's Day is that we may learn how to love Andrei as God desires us to love one another.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Chocolate Kisses - Happy Valentine's Day!

Little Rocker

Randell loves music and AC/DC is one of his favorite bands. He was watching a video of a concert when Andrei joined him. Andrei loves music too and thought it was a lot of fun to "bang your head" just like the people in the video! Hope you enjoy it. : )

Mall Trip

The mall was crazy today! The weather was beautiful and people were out. We mostly went to the mall to ride the merry-go-round. Andrei loved it, but did not want to get off. Poor little thing! He threw a small fit, but it was quickly over. He enjoyed taking in the sights while we walked around, watched the hockey players skating, and tried some new foods.

Cute Pictures

My Babies are sooo cute!

My beautiful girl is growing up, but she will always be my baby. : )

She wanted her hair cut today. We cut off 10 inches and are donating the hair to Locks of Love. She looks so cute with her new hair cut!

Andrei had his hair cut also. He too will always be my baby! That is his new "cheese" smile. Too cute!

Poor Minnie! She has that "HELP ME!" look. : ) There is a toddler in the house now, so she will have to get use to the occasional squeezing. Andrei is doing much better with the dogs, but since he continues to bark at them and holds them tightly, they are scared to come near him. We'll keep working on it. : )

Beautiful from Head to Toes!

We had a blast at Chuck E. Cheese!

We went early in the morning, so there was only a couple of people there. Andrei played on everything in the toddler section and had a blast! He even ate a slice of pizza!

Fun in the Snow

After 3 days of being looked up in the house because of the cold, ice, and snow, we decided to follow in the tradition of Andrei's orphanage and go out on the coldest day. Andrei rolled around in the snow for the first time in his life. They had snowball fights and made snow angels. He had a lot of fun!

Fun in the Sun

Pictures of First Ice Cream


Sorry they are sideways, but it would not upload facing the right way. My blog is doing weird things. OR It could be user error. : )